Here is this big guy I met on a new social media platform
one of many new people that I'd started to follow on there
Then he was very taken with me, and for him, he felt that
it was love at first sight, well, the thing is that he is somewhere
in Europe or in the U.K. I am here in the U.S.A., and he spoke
things that kind of sounded like he wanted to come to this country
and be with me, but it kind of sounded like he wanted me to take care
of him, and the only thing was that we only knew each other for nearly
a month, and I figure that if he was so in love with me that he would
have wanted to do video chats or even just talk over the phone.
But no, he just wanted to do direct messaging. Then he was asking for
some financial help, which I was kind of unsteady about, but I helped him
twice, and I sent an email stating that if there was a third request for some
help with money. Then I was to go NO CONTACT with him. Saying to him
that I am setting a boundary with him, A sort of line in the sand, as it were. So
he had made a third request for some financial help, even though he was asking
for a very small amount. I said to him, "I WOULD THINK ABOUT." But in the
end, I just felt that I had to stop this right then and there. So, I unfollowed him and
blocked his feed to me. And sent one last email saying I'm sorry for having to go
"NO CONTACT" with him, but I felt I did the right thing. I also feel a little
sad because here was a man who saw my picture on a website and fell in
love with me. Not to mention the 20-year age gap between us, and the only
I would think is if I were 20 years younger, or if he were around my age. Then maybe
things could work out between him and me. But for now, I have to have a radio blackout
for the time being, until I feel ready to reach out and say "HELLO" to him again.
I just wanted to get this of my chest, and out of my brain while it's still fresh
in my mind!!!
